USV says more than 250,000 people will spend time with their Tolan this month, and that over the last year users have had more than 70 million conversations with their Tolans[1]. Upstarts says about 250,000 people talk to their own Tolan every month[2]. TechCrunch says more than 250,000 active users have had more than 70 million conversations over the past year[3]. The company site repeats "more than 70 million conversations with Tolans in the past year" and adds "over 180,000 reviews"[4]. A conversation count, a monthly audience and a review count are three different figures.
Earlier primary posts used other counts. On 25 February 2025, chief executive Quinten Farmer wrote that Tolan had soft-launched in late 2024 and that more than 500,000 people had made a Tolan[6]. On 26 June 2026, Homebrew wrote that more than 100,000 people were paying for the app, alongside a $20 million Series A[5]. Paying users in June and people spending time with the app in October are not the same measure.
Upstarts reports that about 70% of users are women, 40% are parents, one in six is actively caring for an aging parent, and users are most likely to be aged between 30 and 45[2]. TechCrunch reports the 70% and 40% figures as what Tolan's team told Upstarts[3]. Farmer's February 2025 post described early testing differently: "almost entirely women, primarily college students and young adults"[6]. That is the company's wording at the time. It is not the October 2026 breakdown.
On the business, Upstarts says annual recurring revenue has more than doubled from last year and sits in the double-digit millions, and that net user retention after 30 days in the app improved 115% year over year[2]. TechCrunch attributes the double-digit-millions figure to what the company told Upstarts[3]. Farmer told Upstarts that Tolan is not profitable as it leans into growth[2]. Upstarts says users have historically paid between $10 and $200 a month, and that the raise is to expand use cases and widen access with a first free tier[2]. The report does not say that free tier is live.
Tolan declined to share a valuation, Upstarts reports. The company says the round is a significant uptick from its previous valuation. Upstarts attributes the previous figure, $120 million, to PitchBook[2]. TechCrunch, citing that report, says the round pushes the valuation beyond the previous $120 million. It adds that PitchBook estimates more than $268 million, with "medium confidence," and that the startup did not disclose the new valuation[3]. USV's post states no valuation[1]. This story did not check PitchBook.
The company site publishes two survey results and does not give a date or a sample size: 86% said their Tolan helped them get through an emotionally difficult experience, and 73% said their Tolan helped them manage or improve a relationship[4]. Upstarts describes an August survey of nearly 5,000 active users, which Tolan completed: 91% said they had at least one human person to count on, 94% said they had turned to a Tolan when those people were unavailable, more than half said their real-life relationships had improved, and a large majority said Tolan made them feel calmer and more confident[2]. The two write-ups do not say this is one survey. This story did not see the questions.